Everyone Has Something...

Today's post is different:
It's a pure writing one.
No reviews today or recent makeup purchases this ones a solid message...

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I may not speak on behalf of all people but sometimes we all feel low. Like we are not good at anything but trust me on this one, everyone has something. How big or small that something may be everyone has it! You've just got to do a little searching and a bit of digging but you will find it. Now I want this post to focus on girls, teenage girls specifically. Now me being one myself I know that sometimes my self esteem dips. At these points I become tired and lazy. feeling like I want to be with no one and have myself as company. I know these aren't great for my health but when I was in high school it was boys who I had a problem with. Again I don't want to say every boy in the world has set out to hurt you, but when I first started I had comments on my appearance and this is what bought me crashing down to Earth. Tears used to instantly fill my eyes and I used to go home crying but all that stopped when I changed my actions toward them. My mum went to go see the head of my year, she said I had to give as good as I get. Now this does not mean assaulting them physically, but if they commented on how I look, I would do the same. This 'skill' helped me all throughout high school, and even in college. The other day a boy commented on a very sensitive issue, but I didn't cry, I didn't even retaliate. I just ignored him, and ignoring is probably better than giving as good as you get because two wrongs don't make a right. Now when someone says something horrible I just ignore them, be the bigger person and don't let them see you in a vulnerable state.

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Forget about what Taylor Swift calls 'haters' because that's all they are, no one else, just mean people set out to bring you down. Always remember however low you feel there are people that can help. Always go to someone when you need to. Wether at home, school etc...  There is always someone there e.g:
Adult- Mum, Dad, Grandma, Grandad, Aunties and Uncles
Teacher: Head of Year, Principal, Form Tutor
ChildLine: 0800 1111
Me: I may not be specialised, or a professional Agony Aunt, but I am hear to listen, listen to problems, feedback and constructive criticism. In my contacts page you will see a contact form enter your message and click send it will automatically be sent to my email and I will always reply.

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Your never alone, don't let people treat you like you're worthless, like there is nothing right with you, always remember everyone has something....

Amber xx 

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